it's time to post some responses. about a week ago
i wrote something about my friend's views of gay pride events. he wrote me to say his views have changed in the last couple years:
"I don't mind at all that you posted what i said or wrote in the
past, but i thought i'd give you an update on how my feelings have changed on the subject since then.
IF (and i want to be very clear that this is an 'if') homosexuality is a
sin, then i don't think that it's my problem to deal with or even point out.
I think that some people think that if a person is confused about their
sexuality and their emotions about members of the same sex, liberals may perhaps tell them to embrace that feeling- coming out of the closet, so to speak. Since this is oft the case, conservatives have often decided that it is their duty to purge them of their homosexuality- therefore creating hatred toward the homo and bi-sexual members of society.
As a conservative, IF i believe that homosexuality is a sin, i still have no
right to hate, or even think that homosexuals are any different than i am ... My only reason (at the present) for disliking 'gay rights' parades or other celebrations, is that it draws distance between homosexual members of society and myself. It puts a label on them, that i cannot label myself. And I see no reason to celebrate the distance between them and myself."
good point about exclusive labeling. but gay people didn't originally apply such labels to themselves - the labels were forced onto them for the very purpose of separation. so do gay pride events do more harm than good by widening this gap in our society? perhaps more importantly, can anything be done to show support for gay people and the particular problems they face without being exclusionary?